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Your Desire And The Society.

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Your Desire And The Society.


No matter what your desires are, they are just ordinary wishes until you do something about it. Wishing it over and over again won't have any effect.

Firstly - you must understand that it's your desire and not others. You owe it to yourself to make it a reality and you can't count on anyone or the government to help you achieve this dream.

Secondly - as you are desiring it, it's your place to also be planning along how to make it possible too. "I want to do this" must always be accompanied by "how to do this" in order to have it done as you wish.

Having a dream then sitting on your ass with the expectation that the government should have provided this or other, your parents should have told you this and that, your siblings and friends should be available to lift you up and give you a helping hand. NO!!! Just as you have your dream so does all these entities have their own desires too. If you really want it so bad then be willing to chase it so bad.

The society will always have one demand or the other from you but you must realize that the most important person in your life is yourself. Your family wants you to be a medical doctor but you are aware that you are not cut out for it, please chase your desire and what you are fit for. Your immediate community wants you to be committed to their religious belief - follow your heart desire, it's your life. The government doesn't care for you, they are just after your taxes and nothing else - expect nothing from the government. 

The government is designed for those who work with and for the government. If you stopped breathing today, the government would charge you for your grave and still tax it.

You are not your society - chase your desire and expect nothing. Only you can make it happen for YOU.


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