Skip to main content

Anger Breeds Nothing But War And Hatred.

Image result for anger is danger

         ANGER = DANGER


They say even the nicest people have their limit. It's alright to get angry now and then but when your anger slips into the next day to the point of wishing your fellow human misfortune then that's dangerous.

There is only one letter missing from both the word "anger" and "danger ". It takes only one action or word to cross from one to the other. That action or word could either ruin your day or someone else's day if not life!

Nothing good or positive can ever come out of anger - you could lose a friend, family or a loyal lover as a result of your temper.

Identify it's an issue and work on it. An African adage says " The moment a mad person realizes he is mad then he is no longer mad". 

Most of us would be better as a person and in extension, a better use for the society but this act of anger is destroying us bit by bit without realizing that fact until we are at that point of no return.

Anger has destroyed many homes where siblings don't talk to each other, marriages have been broken as a result of anger and loved ones lost forever. Anger can be controlled - you just need to identify what sets you off and how to curb it. Nothing is impossible if you are determined.

Think twice before you hurt someone with your words or action. Once you say those hurtful words or take those world destroying actions - they are not retractable just as you can't remould eggs once cracked.

Our home and the society is a better place to live in with smiles, happiness, and laughter.

#angerbreedsnothingbutwarandhatred

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Amaka - The Story Of A Village Girl And Her Race Against The Tide Of Poverty.

Amaka – The Story of a Village Girl and Her Race against the Tide of Poverty. Amaka was born in a small village near Nnewi in Anambra state, southeast of Nigeria. She was born into a family of 6 including her parents. The father was a retired soldier who fought in the civil war and now a local palm wine tapper while the mother is a full-time housewife looking after the home and the children. She is the first child of the house and this comes with a lot of challenges as she is practically the mother to her siblings and sees to their wellbeing day in – day out. Amaka is a very ambitious and focused young lady with a dream to make a difference, not only in her life but the life of her siblings too and help her parents along the line out of poverty. A village girl with a tall dream – She had to make a sacrifice by dropping out of school so her siblings can at least get some as well. She couldn’t finish her junior years unfortunately while her siblings are aiming to at least ge...

Your Relationship And Unhealthy Competition.

Your Relationship And Unhealthy Competition. It's not unusual to see people comparing their relationship to that of friends or colleagues. This is very unhealthy no matter what angle you are seeing it from. To start with - the person you are comparing your situation with might be in a worse one actually, you are only being told what you need to hear and not the actual picture of their situation. Also - what works for Mr. A may not work for Mr. B. The fact that you think your mate is having a better relationship than yours does not mean that their partner might be better for you or their modus operandi can be applied to your relationship. Unnecessary exposure of your situation does not help anyone but it complicates the matter, you are now not only the center of gossips among friends but now you are more confused with various suggestions and advises from different quarters. When you and your partner eventually sort your issues out, you have to deal with y...

The Story Of Two Friends – Ade & Emeka And Their Quest For Success.

The Story Of Two Friends – Ade & Emeka And Their Quest For Success. Both Ade and Emeka were born in the digital age i.e. in the 90’s! Those who were born before this period had to go extra miles in achieving their aims in life, access to data and information were very limited and technology wasn’t advanced enough to aid individual desires – that is not the same for the 90’s kids. They both attended same high school and were neighbours in Rukuba Barracks in Jos where their fathers are stationed as soldiers serving the nation. Emeka’s father was transferred over to Jos from Enugu and Ade’s father was transferred to Jos from Lagos, the boys were very young when they had to move to Jos with their parents. It was so quick and easy for them to form friendship; they are not just neighbours but newbies and non-locals in the barrack where majority of the soldiers are local men from Lanagtang, Wase, Jos, Pankshin, Barkin Ladi, Shendam, Mangu etc. within the state. As they ...