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Happiness Is A Choice.

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Happiness Is A Choice.

Are you upset and downcast because someone insulted, maltreated or disrespected you? If insults could kill, Donald Trump would be dead! But he is in the White House instead as the free world leader.

No matter the situation you are in, get yourself a bottle of wine and shake your butt to some tunes while singing along. Being sad and miserable won't change a thing but leave you worse off. Life is for living and happiness is a self-made choice. One doesn't have to be rich or be loved to be happy.

If you have failed once dust yourself and try again. It's not about why you failed but if you are able to get up and overcome that failure.

Now get that headphone out and get in that mood - life is hard but none of us would get out alive !!

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