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CHASE YOUR DREAM.

This may encourage someone.

How do you manage to look so young? 
Trust me, I am not young to start with I just happen to love myself. You are not capable to love anyone else if you are not in love with yourself. 
  Stay away from drama and anything that stresses you, less alcohol and more of water. Why bother about things you can't change or have power over? Worrying over issues drains you. People you surround yourself with plays a major impact in your life. If they're not adding values to your life drop them. I do not drink, smoke or get worried unnecessarily. I can have a heartbreak earlier in the day and still party on the night of same day. That doesn't mean I am heartless or not in pain I just embrace changes and move on easily without holding on to grudges. It drags you down and blinds you. I learnt in a hard way hence the experience.

I so want to be like you. Mentor me.
I am glad I am able to inspire someone but I need to be frank here. You only see what I want you to see. Everyone goes through one challenge or the other, no one showcases their failures but success. I have my fair share of such I just don't sulk about it. When you have issues do spend your time in looking for the solution rather than be complaining or spreading the news of your misfortune. Sure they will listen to it but guess what they ain't doing jack about it. You are the only one that can help you out of whatever situation you find yourself. Just believe in yourself. No harm in starting late the most important bit is getting to your destination. You failed in one field or profession then dust yourself and start over! Nobody cares how many times you have failed but if you made it.

The secret of success. 
Well, success has various faces and shades. There is no right or wrong definition or view of this and no manual of it in existence that I know of. However you are as successful as you dream, why limit yourself when you can actually dream and do better? You are not a rock if things are not working well for you where you then move elsewhere! Most of us are scared of failure and the fear of the unknown hence we are not attempting something new. We are so comfortable with where we are, people we are with and the society that we find it difficult to adapt to changes and embrace the new direction.  
   This is applicable to Work, Marriage or any form of relationship. If it's not working - means it's not working no matter how many permutations or logic you apply to it. Move on and start over! You are not Olumo rock.

It is nice to have something to hold on to like faith but spending 80% of your time and meager income on any kind of religion is equal to living in a psychiatric home. This only brew poverty there is no short cut to it. Wake up and be responsible for your own destiny before your children challenge you on what you actually did with your years aside going to mosque or church. One can be spiritual and a believer without religion. Religion is responsible for half of the world chaos if not more. You can still relate with God without being brainwashed. 

   Have fun while you are focused on your dream, we only live once after all. Forgive easily we are only humans. Whatever your dreams are, pursue it and never let anyone tell you it's impossible or you only deserve the crumbs. You can achieve it if you chase it. It won't come to you. CHASE YOUR DREAM. 

I have a dream

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