The Positive Outreach

Various Ways To Cement Your Marriage / Relationship. There are no perfect people just as there is no perfect relationship or marriage – people just find a way to tolerate each other and make it work. The points in this piece are only a guide as what works for Team A may not work for Team B. However, they all present no harm but lead towards a happy home. 1 – The act of exchanging gifts - The value of what you are giving is not the exact point here but the motive, thought, remembrance and feeling behind it.  Guys – buying your woman a yam pounding machine is not a gift, you simply got her a machine to perform a household task where you are the sole benefactor. Ladies – leaving this act for your man as his responsibility is not cool, learn to exchange gifts. Buying him boxer shorts and vests at every occasion is already expected and no surprise here. Now the real meaning of a gift in a marriage or relationship.The gift should convey the message “I love you” even wh

Making Your Marriage / Relationship Work. Whenever two different people from two different societies and backgrounds decide to come together as one then they both have decided to weather the storm together no matter how threatening things become. There will be storm upon storm but it takes a lot of determination to remain as one and survive all the challenges.

Love vs Lust: Any difference? There is a massive difference between Love and Lust and it’s usually easy to get confused over both. We humans mostly get carried away accepting lust from the other person in form of “love”. Lust is in no way related to love – not by any means. Lust is a physical attraction, driven mostly by sexual desires. It’s usually very intense, wild and fun but unfortunately, without the involvement of the heart – it’s all about the body! Whereas, Love is all about having a great interest, passion, and pleasure in or towards someone. A Strong feeling of affection is involved here. This involves giving yourself wholeheartedly, without a question to another person with the intention of being with them not for the moment but for a long time if not forever. Many might not understand this part – if you are dating someone and you see each other as lovers but you are not friends. There is no other way about this. This is just Lust and not Love – no mat