Failure
Is Part of Success.
Whenever you have
accomplished a defined task or purpose, you have reached a success stage, in
this part of the world, success is related to social status . When you have
fame and wealth, you are automatically tagged as being successful.
Failure on the other
hand resides wherever success is lacking, anyone that is unsuccessful in
whatever form, be it their inability to accomplish a task, a collapse of plan
or a non-achiever in general.
Here is the twist and
the correlation between these two factors, they are actually related, you can’t
have one without the other, in order to meet the favoured cousin – you must go
through the unfortunate one. It’s just how life is designed; there is no
shortcut about this.
Failure is just a
delayed process until the arrival of success. However, it’s just a process and
under no circumstance should we as humans assume that failing a task is a
blocker to our desire. On the contrary, that’s there to challenge how far we
are willing to go for our desire and to value it when we eventually secure it.
Our strength and ability are in test here, in most cases the higher the
challenges, the higher the success.
It’s not abnormal to
see people avoiding challenges; humans are naturally designed to sense and avoid
danger; our sense organs instantly respond to external stimuli whenever we are
being challenged and that in turn sends impulses to our sensory nervous system
which in turn means abandoning whatever we were doing for safety – this is just
how we are designed but only very few of us possess the ability to shut down
that fear and stand against that challenge in order to continue that journey.
Fear is an enemy and it’s an agent of failure, whenever we embrace fear, we
have unintentionally signed an agreement with failure and the path to it has
been activated.
No matter what it is
that you desire, challenges will always arise on the path towards that desire,
the higher the desire – the more the challenges. Whenever you avoid a
challenge, two things are happening here; you have now armed the challenge to
grow and this could now be higher than you could manage, secondly – your
E.T.A is now farther away, for some unlucky people – that might never
happen during their lifetime, which is rather unfortunate due to their
inability to bury their fear and face their challenge when it was just a mere
crossover.
For you to meet
success you must go through series of challenges and during that period of you
being challenged, the entire world would be looking at you as a failure, it is
important and essential to ignore and focus on your journey.
Their plan is to
derail you so you can validate their opinion and assumption, no matter how much
and high those challenges are, you must remember the factors below.
- Why did I start this journey?
- Can I afford to give up now?
- What is my alternative plan?
- Do I care about what others think?
- This is important to me, I must do this for me
- I can’t be tagged a failure
- If this doesn’t work, I must try again
- I can do this
- Any challenge on the way is not enough to stop me
- Any form of distraction must be ignored
- I would be discouraged by friends, family and haters
but it’s my dream and not theirs
- I have a purpose
- I am a winner, I must think and act like one
It won’t be easy but
it’s not impossible either. Success is for those who are determined, resilient,
consistent and with a high degree of endurance.
Whatever your desire
is – I am wishing you all the best and you must remember that that if you
failed once doesn’t mean you can’t try again. There are 7 days in a week and
12months in a year!
All the best!
Big Daddy
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