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Your Life - Your Journey - Your Destination.

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Your Life  - Your Journey - Your Destination.



The moment you are given birth to – your life begins! The process from that point to how you live your life as an adult is your journey and during this journey, you will encounter various situations and meet all sorts of people.

Your life is a gift and it must be cherished and protected until the end – many are on the sick bed and they will do anything to have that life that you have been granted free of charge. Now that you have been given life, the journey is entirely up to you, on this journey – your path will be laced with challenges, troubles, and trials but remaining on track and focusing on your purpose will get you to whatever destination you may desire.

It is your responsibility to design your path, avoid distractions, remain on track and ensure that you get to that desired destination – not only on time but in one piece and contented.

That you have this life free does not mean that you will have everything thrown at you without sweating for it. The only thing free in life is that life itself – anything else that you desire, you must work for it and labour to have it no matter how little it is. While you are in pursuit of those desires day in day out, several issues will arise to test your faith, strength, commitment, determination and ultimately your endurance. You can’t afford to get derailed – at some point, the trial may look like you are getting drowned in it but it’s all part of your journey.

In most cases – to find your path, you will need to get lost first. This is applicable to failure in business or an unfortunate end of a marriage/relationship, If you didn’t fail in that music career – you wouldn’t have found out that you are better being an actor than singing. If you haven’t experienced those failed relationships then you probably wouldn’t have known how to handle your present love life. Life will throw you around a bit but it will leave you with a worthy experience and that experience will come handy in every step you take afterward.

The fact that someone has wronged you does not necessarily mean that they were meant to destroy you or they are now your sworn enemy. If you take your time to study the situation, you may understand your path crossed for a reason – if you didn’t meet that person, you may not know what you know now about life and people. Not all lessons require taking classes.

Because your marriage or relationship didn’t work out does not automatically turn that person into your enemy. It is a double tragedy to lose your relationship and still lose your friendship; we are all unique in our own ways. Try as much as possible to maintain a stable and strong ladder during your journey of life. The people you have crossed path with are your ladder in life. Imagine a situation where a life-changing contract is to be authorised by an ex that you disconnected from on a sour note? I am sure you wouldn’t bother to seek for a favour knowing what the result of that might be.

To reach your destination successfully then it is paramount and inevitable to set your eyes on the spot you intend to reach – No one gets lost with a map of their destination at hand! Your map is your plan on how to get there, when to get there, with whom not to get there and by what means to get there! We humans usually get things mixed up and in the process, we get derailed from our path and it’s always easy to blame a third party for our misfortune.

The fact that you like someone so much does not mean they must be part of your journey, any attempt to force someone else to be part of your journey is a self-inflicted disaster waiting to happen as that journey just ended the moment you have taken that unfortunate decision.

You are the sole driver of your bus and the onus is on you to decide who and who to be on that bus and who and who is not expected to be on your bus – that they wish to be on your bus does not mean that they must be on your bus, the decision is always yours – it’s your bus at the end of the day – your bus is your journey and your journey is your life.

Appreciate that life – protect that life – enjoy and be selective on that journey – tattoo your destination on your heart.


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