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Your Language - Your Culture And Your Tradition.

Your Language - Your Culture And Your Tradition.   To confuse a man, take away his identity. A man’s identity is his language, his culture, and tradition. In this day and age, many people are getting carried away embracing a new found culture – mostly the Western culture. The influence of the western culture on the continent of Africa cannot be overemphasized. The western culture in no doubt has its advantages but not without coming with the baggage of unfit and series of negative influence. Culture is important – most people are of the thought that having a culture or having a tie to one’s heritage is so archaic and not modern but in all honesty, no matter how much you try to distance yourself from your culture – you are still who you are and the only place you can be comfortable is when you are who you are and not what the society expects of you. A man from Yiwu in China moved to Los Angeles and for him to fit into the culture of L.A, he is no longer bearing Mr.Wu

Certificate Acquisition vs Self Development

Certificate Acquisition vs Self Development Attending some sort of college to acquire more knowledge in a particular field of choice is an amazing idea and highly encouraged that we all try as much as possible to pursue one discipline or the other to a professional level – get certified by an approved institution or educational body. We now live in a society where not having any sort of certification is seen as abnormal and frowned upon like a disease, which in turn has transformed people into zombies with desperation to do whatever it takes to have one certificate or the other even if it means selling a kidney to have one or never have a reason to make use of the said certificate. As an African myself, it is natural to relate this to my immediate environment. I was born in southern Nigeria, schooled across the land and have lived, visited and mingled with people from other nations and continents within the last 20years I can confirm that majority of us are gett

I Want To But I Don’t Want To – The Unfortunate Act Of Self-Doubt And Mind Dancing.

I Want To But I Don’t Want To – The Unfortunate Act Of Self-Doubt And Mind Dancing. Most of us are stagnant and unable to get out of the same zone we are even though some part of us are yearning for that change or aiming at that desired element. It usually starts domestically; we sometimes never know what to wear for that occasion or what time to get off the bed to meet up with that appointment. Many questions start racing through our minds – should I wear this? Oh no, I will look too slutty, should I wear the lacy one? Nah it doesn’t fit the occasion, oh how about this one I got for my birthday? Nah I will look like a teenager and at the end of the day, we usually go back to that first choice. On various occasions – many of us must have found ourselves saying YES to a request and to later say NO to the same thing, even though nothing has changed between the times. That’s the mind of a human being at work! That we accept to do something is never an agreement with