Trust In Yourself.

Trust In Yourself.

When you are in deep-shit and can't figure a way out. Your first step towards resolution is realizing the fact that only you can solve that problem and the - 2nd step doesn't go about discussing it with every Tom, Dick, and Harry-they won't do jack about it and yet compound your issue by spreading the news and possibly adding what not.

Bad news travels faster than success that's because everyone is interested to hear you fall, sharing it with anyone and everyone only help the carrier. That same energy you use in feeling sorry for yourself and telling others that don't give a damn about your predicaments-use that same energy towards solving your problem.

No one can know if you haven't eaten in days if you don't share it. As a troubled young man, my mother once told me you are safer speaking to your image in the mirror than speaking to your brother or me as you won't betray yourself. That makes a lot of sense as I get older.

Trust yourself and speak to yourself now and again. You won't hurt you and you won't betray you. Only you can change you, no one can change you. Be you and help you out of your problems. YES, YOU!!!

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